Theres a first time for everything, including sex. In the face of the first sex many men may appear including soft cock, premature ejaculation, can not find the hole including the following 8 kinds of embarrassing embarrassment, perhaps put it out first, you can play prevention is better than cure function oh!

1. Not doing enough foreplay

Foreplay enough to do enough mood, enough mood female partners will be wet, wet enough to smoothly insert so that she will not pain, but often many zero experience virgins are too eager to enter the hole, or because the first time do not know where to start, and ignore the importance of foreplay ah!

Foreplay is all about looking at each other, talking, touching, kissing, and so on. Move slowly with your hands or mouth from the face, ears, neck, shoulders, back, waist, hips, inner thighs to toes, looking for her sensitive areas and attacking them, then gently caress and lick your sister with your fingers and tongue, making her comfortable as you enjoy exploring her body. Foreplay is a warm-up and an appetizer to make the main meal taste better. Dont skip this step.

2. You dont wear condoms

After the machine is warmed, the clothes and pants are all taken off, the condom is unwrapped, wow embarrassing Why does it seem like it doesnt go on? Dont doubt, a lot of men have this problem, after all, this is your first time in the field.

To avoid such a situation, you can buy a good condom at home in advance to practice wearing it, or simply tell your female partner that this is your first time, seems to be a little bit not good at wearing, can you ask her to help? Of course, this option assumes that she has the experience to know how to operate it.

3. I dont know where to insert the hole

Finding the right location is also one of the learning, many virgins either cant find the hole, or almost check the wrong hole, making both of them very nervous. The solution is as follows: If the woman is experienced in sex, let her lead, let her hold your penis into the hole, or change to the female up and male down position.

If the woman is like you for the first time, do not ask her to lie with her legs raised, or pose M-leg, so that you can clearly see the position of the vagina. Before insertion, the front end of the glans is used to stimulate the girl around the vagina, in addition to conducting a body fluid exchange action, etc., to better insert, and to better understand the correct insertion position through her sensitive reaction.

4. Too nervous and soft

Whether it is soft cock or premature ejaculation, which we will discuss, it is normal to have sex for the first time, and dont be too inferior to think that you have a problem. In fact, it causes many factors, may be psychological pressure, excessive gun, etc., do not have a few experiences and then observe whether the same situation.

If there is no improvement, seeking medical treatment, more exercise, changing masturbation and living habits are one of the solutions; Or try to open your heart to communicate with your female companion, see if you want to change the way you make love, foreplay for a long time, the woman uses her mouth to help you serve, or come to a spiritual exchange to encourage each other, the pressure is released, and the problem may be solved naturally.

5. Keep your nose to the grindstone

One kind of hard work, the other worry about hurting the woman and do not dare to move, mostly the former. You know, to make a girl comfortable is not a rush of crazy, you have to shallow in shallow out, the situation is getting better and start the deep attack, sometimes gentle and sometimes violent.

Making love is definitely not good on your own, constantly pumping for the last wave of big shots, but also to take into account the womans feelings. Mens orgasm is ejaculation, women enjoy the whole process, try to adjust the strength, master the speed, let sex add more fun.

6. Not enough poses.

The first time the most common should be missionaries, this is not a big problem, but if the girl said will hurt on the headache, there is no other way to do? There is another situation is that each girls sensitive posture is different, although the missionary is also comfortable, but really can let her orgasm is behind the pose! What guy doesnt want to be told hes good in bed? Well, Xiaobian does not hide private, sex posture this recommended to you! (Extended reading: Are there always a few tricks to shoot? Try these 34 amazing sex positions and get her rocking tonight!)

7. It doesnt take long to shoot

Just like the soft cock just said, premature ejaculation is also a lot of men will have problems for the first time to make love, there is no way, because the first time to feel the contraction and touch of the girls vagina, not a couple of minutes on the excitement of excessive blood cardia.

8. Sleep through it

In fact, a virgin or a friend who does not have much sexual experience, I suggest that two people can communicate with each other after making love, whether it is to talk about how happy it is just having sex, or ask yourself because it is the first time, whether there are places that need to be strengthened, from which to gain experience, confidence, experience, so that the next sex can be better.

Epilogue

Men ah men, 9 out of 10 are face to self-esteem, this is innate nature, no man does not want to be worshipped.

However, Xiaobian wants to express that if you are really too nervous, inexperienced, and dont know what to do for the first time, then admit it! And female partner said: In fact, this is my first time, if you do not do well to make you uncomfortable, I hope you can tolerate. Trust me, at this time to put down your self-esteem, the woman will not only not laugh at you, but will also think that you are very cute, willing to show the side that is not good at.

Who hasnt had their first time? Dont be afraid of losing face in bed, just afraid of leaving a bad first sexual experience, so that both sides will leave a shadow after

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